Summerbreeze

10/11/2010

I understand that when you've got a boyfriend/girlfriend you really care about the person. Single people look at couples wishing they had a special fella all to themselves. You see them joking and making lame comments to each other "Bowwiidowwiii yiouu luuk zoo cuutiee!" (couples like that makes me puke though). You look at them and see two people that truly cares and worries for the other happiness. They think, and sometimes talk, non-stop about the other person.

But does a relationship mean to only talk about that person. Does it mean to forget yourself and only think about the other needs instead of your own? Is it right to do so? Won't you get exhausted in the end, feeling as though you gave and gave and gave, but never received anything in return? Might that be the reason why there're loads of people breaking up before it even began?

Don't get me wrong, I am overdoing it now. But think about all those couples that never survived. If couples try to think as TWO people in a relationship instead of one, they might have a shot? If something isn't right for you, but the other person really wants to - you could tell him/her about it. Then you wouldn't burst over and end up heart broken.

Or maybe relationships really are about the other person. Is it loving the other person instead of yourself?

Autumn break

Hey!
Sorry I haven't been able to do any blogging this weekend. I've been on our cabin with a friend of mine, and I forgot my computer at home! But we took loads of picture so I'll try post some of them before I go to Poland on WEDNESDAY!!

It's finally autumn break, I'm off school for a week. Have to work tomorrow and Tuesday, but that doesn't matter much when I don't have any homework or anything to worry about.
Good night people, seeya

10/07/2010

Tired

I need at least 10 hours of sleep. I need food. I need relaxing music and a good book.

10/06/2010

Rain...

It's been raining non-stop today. And you'd think that was all, but it isn't. Here in Stavanger it rarely rains right down, it comes from every possible side and angle because of the wind. Totally love it. Sort of reminds me of Copenhagen in the summer. It was raining there as well, but wasn't as cold as here and your umbrella didn't break because of the wind!