Decaf

I think you can compare relationships to loads of things. There is one, very random, thing I discovered it could be compared to. Coffee. Yes, you read right! Let us pretend that a strong, black coffee is real love. Over the years you taste all different kinds of coffee. Vanilla, mocca, cappucino, latte, ice coffee and decaf. 

You order a black coffee, but they've messed up your order so you get a decaf by a mistake. At first you can't tell the difference. It smells the same, looks the same, and tastes almost the same. You don't notice the difference before later, when you're supposed to feel energized. Instead you feel tired, and exhausted. 

In life you meet loads of decaf relationship, it just wasn't what you wanted and disappointed you. At first you thought it was a cup of black coffee, but then you noticed something wasn't right. When you find that coffee you never get tired off, you know it's true!

Yeah, who said love can't be compared with hot liquid?