Control of feelings

Seriously, how much power do we have? Faith is decided long time ago, actions are made upon us. Choices, people might say, we can control. But isn't it faith who already decided you've gotta make that choice? And if so, wouldn't your answer be faith as well?

Actions are made upon us. Sometimes we cannot control what we're doing, we just jump to it without further explanation. Was it our feelings taking over?

At some level we can't handle our emotions either. You might tell yourself that your OK with it, but it just aches inside. And suddenly it boils over, hate to say it, but at one point we all have to stop lying to ourselves to save others from the truth.

If we can't control faith, actions or feelings. What can we control?