10/31/2010

Online dating

All over the world you can see big posters and adds about finding your "soulmate". Such as ; "Want to find that special person? Sign up for a chance to find YOUR soulmate!" Dating online, and finding that special person is all over the internet. You'll see commercial for it all over the world, and it's like - for real?


For me, it's a little difficult to imagine finding my future husband through internet. You never know how trustworthy people are over internet. They can lie about anything, and you can as well. It is way too insecure for me to even consider it. 

And the whole illusion about meeting the love of my life on a computer makes it all a bit unromantic. What would I tell my kids? "Oh, well. I saw his profile on this online dating website, and I saw he too liked walks on the beach.."


Yeah, maybe people do fall in love on these dating websites. And maybe online dating is the new modern thing, in the future maybe that's how we all will date. 


What about you - do you believe in online dating? Yes or no?

10/23/2010

Hmm...

Hey guys,


You´ve probably noticed that my blogging has been minimum this last week and I´m really sorry. I wish I was that sort of blogger who could post everyday, and that every post was interesting and well written. Well, I´m not that sort of blogger. I don´t have time to do that. And also, lately, I haven´t had a clue about what I should write about. So, now I ask you - what should I write about? Anything you´d like to see more/less of on my blog?


Laterzzzzzzzzzzzzz

10/21/2010

errrr-what?!


I saw the most bizarre thing ever this morning! I woke (as usual a little late) and did my makeup and got dressed. Nothing seemed to be anything but normal. But then...........

I went downstairs to make myself breakfast - yoghurt and corn flakes. Then I looked outside my window, and it was raining. Oh, that's just typical isn't it? But no!
 Was it? Could it be? How could that be? It was October, right? And it hasn't actually been Halloween yet. It is still autumn, right?


So why the hell was it SNOWING outside?! White, small snowflakes on the size of a corn flake. Loads of it fell lightly from high above. Snow. Snow! In friggin OCTOBER.


Good news is that it all melted away by the end of the day! Has it been snowing where you live?

10/18/2010

It's better to light a candle, than curse the dark

I think that most be the most clever thing in the world ever said/written. I love it, and catch myself several times thinking of it. 

Instead of digging us in our own misery, and instead of bury it inside ourselves - why not try to talk about it? Try to see the candle in the dark, light a hope in our hearts and see all the positive things in our lives. There're always one good thing, happening, experienced or dream within us. Let that good dream overcome all the bad ones - and you'll see that there's light in the end of the tunnel.



10/11/2010

Lies will lock you up,

with truth the only key.

You+Me=You?


I understand that when you've got a boyfriend/girlfriend you really care about the person. Single people look at couples wishing they had a special fella all to themselves. You see them joking and making lame comments to each other "Bowwiidowwiii yiouu luuk zoo cuutiee!" (couples like that makes me puke though). You look at them and see two people that truly cares and worries for the other happiness. They think, and sometimes talk, non-stop about the other person.

But does a relationship mean to only talk about that person. Does it mean to forget yourself and only think about the other needs instead of your own? Is it right to do so? Won't you get exhausted in the end, feeling as though you gave and gave and gave, but never received anything in return? Might that be the reason why there're loads of people breaking up before it even began?

Don't get me wrong, I am overdoing it now. But think about all those couples that never survived. If couples try to think as TWO people in a relationship instead of one, they might have a shot? If something isn't right for you, but the other person really wants to - you could tell him/her about it. Then you wouldn't burst over and end up heart broken. 

Or maybe relationships really are about the other person. Is it loving the other person instead of yourself?

Autumn break

Hey!
Sorry I haven't been able to do any blogging this weekend. I've been on our cabin with a friend of mine, and I forgot my computer at home! But we took loads of picture so I'll try post some of them before I go to Poland on WEDNESDAY!!


It's finally autumn break, I'm off school for a week. Have to work tomorrow and Tuesday, but that doesn't matter much when I don't have any homework or anything to worry about. 
Good night people, seeya

10/07/2010

Tired

I need at least 10 hours of sleep. I need food. I need relaxing music and a good book.



10/06/2010

Rain...

It's been raining non-stop today. And you'd think that was all, but it isn't. Here in Stavanger it rarely rains right down, it comes from every possible side and angle because of the wind. Totally love it. Sort of reminds me of Copenhagen in the summer. It was raining there as well, but wasn't as cold as here and your umbrella didn't break because of the wind!


I. Need. Vacation.

10/04/2010

10/03/2010

Brunette


The room is pretty dark, but I'll post a better picture some time soon!

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